clients who are being sexually exploited by mental health professionals
are not living with the professional or obviously not being physically restrained
in their offices, there do seem to be some parallels with battered women, hostages,
captives, and cult followers, in the sense that these victims have experienced
a kind of "psychological transformation" with respect to the professional
who is abusing them.
The intense entanglement, merging of identity, isolation,
secrecy, loss of self, suspension of values and moral principles, compliance,
and subordination cement the person to the abuser and continue to bend his or
her reality after escape. Yet survivors do resist, fighting back, try to reclaim
their identity, and look for other ways to build their self-esteem. They thwart
the professional's domination and numbness to their feelings, as well as their
loss of energy and interest, and vivid memories or "flashbacks" of the
Ethics - The Inner Struggle of Battered Women
disputes portrayals of battered women and other chronically traumatized people
as apathetic or defeated. He depicts an inner struggle that is much livelier and
more complex. While the victim has not given up, she tends to be extremely vigilant
and careful, knowing that any action can have potentially dire consequences. If
captivity is prolonged, the enforced relationship with the captor comes to monopolize
the victim's inner life, and continues, even after release, to engross the victim's
attention. Although perhaps fearful that her former captor will hunt her down,
or re-imprison her, at the same time she may feel confused, empty, and worthless without him.
you know, in abusive relationships, under extreme duress captives can be broken.
A wife, for example, may enter a state of "robotization," experiencing
a shutdown of thoughts, feelings, judgment, and initiative. In the movie,
"American Beauty" starring Kevin Spacey, the wife of the husband living
next door, totally depicts this robotization. Her husband, an ex-military man,
is extraordinarily controlling and perfectionistic.
One scene depicts the couple
sitting on the couch watching TV. The wife is so shut down that she is sitting
stoically, robot-like, angled away from her husband, totally non-reactive to the
program being "watched". In other scenes, she is so shut down that she
stares robot-like often into space, totally disconnected to others around her,
responding emotionlessly in a brief mechanical manner.
Ethics - Loss of Inner Autonomy
autonomy, moral principles, world-view, and a sense of connection with others
are also lost. A survivor of abuse, forced into pornography and prostitution,
states "The very thought of escape was terrifying. I had been degraded every
possible way, stripped of all dignity, reduced to an animal and then to a vegetable.
Whatever strength I had began to disappear. Simple survival took everything; making
it all the way to tomorrow was a victory."
this state of psychological degradation, which is still reversible, victims
may alternate between complete submission and more active resistance. People in
extreme situations, such as Nazi extermination camps, sometimes reached a second
stage, which was one of total surrender, finally losing the will to live. Sometimes,
on the verge of this surrender, captives reach a turning point and begin a fight
for their lives.
"I decided that I would not die."
Patti Hearst, kept captive in a closet, describes growing steadily
weaker, exhausted, drained, and tired. She wanted nothing more than to sleep,
but realized that this could be fatal. Suddenly, aware of the danger, "My
mind . . . was alive and alert to all this. I could see what was happening to
me, as if I were outside myself. A silent battle was waged there in the closet,
and my mind won. Deliberately and clearly, I decided that I would not die, not
of my own accord. I would fight with everything in my power to survive."
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