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Section 3
Track #3 - Use of a 'Feelings Wheel' and 'Details Strategy'

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On the last track, we discussed the idea of empowerment as the foundation for healing and how to build it: through building a sense of responsibility and accountability; through developing his understanding of his power and its limitations; and through equipping the client with knowledge and empowering skills.

As you know, there are various modes in treating sexually abused boys. Generally, sometimes it is difficult to decipher whether a boy will benefit the most from group therapy or if he needs more individualistic treatment.

On this track, we will examine some criteria which indicates individual therapy rather than group therapy: undisclosed personal information about the sexual abuse; assault by a stranger; and if group therapy would be an unnecessarily stressful situation.

Share on Facebook Qualification # 1: Undisclosed Information
The first aspect that I find most probably indicates a client is not suited for group therapy is that the boy has not disclosed information about the abuse himself. William, age 11, had been brought in by his mother, Janeane. Janeane suspected William's soccer coach had been molesting him and other young boys at his house.

William showed all characteristics of a sexual abuse survivor: fighting with other children, a sudden drop in school performance, and a reclusive personality. However, William has not yet told me himself that he has been abused. To put him in group therapy and adding additional peer pressure to his situation might discourage him from revealing the embarrassing details of the abuse.

Share on Facebook Qualification #2: Assault by a Stranger
In addition to not disclosed information about the abuse himself, the second characteristic that indicates a client should be referred to individual therapy is in the case of assault by a stranger. In cases where the client does not know the abuser, different symptoms and consequences arise. Do you agree? For instance, when a client knows the perpetrator, they experience mistrust, ambivalence, and betrayal. In the case of a stranger's assault, these symptoms do not occur. Matthew, age 13, was one such case.

Matthew had been abducted on his way home from school and abused in the back of the stranger's car before being released several miles from his home. Matthew had a strong perception of being "damaged" because of the injuries he incurred as a result of the abuse, as is common in many incidences of stranger assault.

Also, Matthew expressed concerns about contracting a sexually transmitted disease. Due to the extraordinary circumstances surrounding Matthew's abuse, I believe that he would have had a difficult time with boys of his age who were abused by a known assailant rather than a stranger.

Share on Facebook Technique: Feelings Wheel
To address Matthew's feelings of being damaged, I found the "Feelings Wheel" exercise beneficial. In this exercise:
-- Step # 1 - I gave Matthew a sheet of paper and asked him to draw one circle to cover most of the sheet.
-- Step # 2 - Then, I asked him to draw another, smaller circle on the inside of the first circle and an even smaller one inside that circle.
-- Step # 3 - When he was finished, I asked him to label one circle "Parents", the next one "Perpetrator", and the next one "Me".
-- Step # 4 - I then asked Matthew to write in each circle all the feelings he had towards that particular person or people at that time. In the circle labeled, "Parents", Matthew wrote, "love, warm, safe". In the circle labeled "Perpetrator" he wrote, "mad, hate, afraid"; and in the circle labeled "Me", Matthew wrote, "sad, worried, hate, pity".
In connecting these feelings with a physical person, Matthew was able to better understand his convoluted emotions.

Share on Facebook Qualification #3: Group Therapy Proves too Stressful
In addition to undisclosed personal information and assault by a stranger, a third characteristic to keep in mind when deciding which type of therapy would be beneficial is if group therapy would be overly stressful for a particular reason.

For instance, if a boy was sexually molested by more than one individual, group therapy might trigger multiple problem behaviors. Also, if a client has a thought disorder or developmental disorder, a group atmosphere is usually too stressful or frustrating. Kyle, age 11 who was abused by his uncle at the age of 9, exhibited ADHD characteristics and I believed that being in a group environment would only distract him.

Share on Facebook Technique: Details
In order to help William open up to me about the alleged abuse, I found the "Details" Therapy Strategy beneficial. I provided William with a copy of the "Details" questionnaire, which can be found in the back of your manual that accompanies this Home Study Course. The word "Details" refers to the fact that the client is requested to recall details of the abuse.

I asked him to fill out the questionnaire. Here are William's responses to the Details Questionaire:

"Coach Walters and his wife treated me bad, but first they were nice. I was 10 when they started and they stopped when I was 11. They did it to me many times. They brought me to their house and did it in their basement. They told me to do things like kiss other boys and take my clothes off. They recorded everything. Nobody else knew. Eric [one of the other molested boys] told his parents. They called everyone else's parents. I'm mad at my coach. I don't think he had to do that to me or my team mates."

With this exercise, William became much more open about what happened to him and could finally begin the early stages of his therapy.

On this track, we discussed some criteria which indicates individual therapy rather than group therapy: undisclosed personal information about the sexual abuse; assault by a stranger; and if group therapy would be an unnecessary stressful situation.

On the next track, we will address examining the various aspects to keep in mind when including the family in off hours therapy: education of the parents; developing and understanding a client's need for security; and reestablishing good self-esteem.

QUESTION 3
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